Well, the foremost thing which one should realize to be happy that the key to true happiness lies only in us and not in our surroundings or in others. If we base our happiness on others or only be happy when something great happens, then one can be sure of not being happy most of the time. People can easily make us feel good or bad when ever they want to do but again, it only happens ‘if’ we allow them to do so. So, sometimes when we have to bear such kind of persons who are objectively functioning to steal our happiness, then it’s wise to remember that no one can ever make us feel something until we want that to happen. In the beginning, we might have to work hard on controlling ourselves, but the fact should be ‘we control our feelings, and feelings don’t control us’.
Raza
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